Friday, January 2, 2009

In the Family

Some new friends from church invited us and another couple over for dinner New Year's Day. We hoped to also watch the Orange Bowl but it was a little too late for our kiddos. Go Tech!!!
Anyway, through a conversation I won't go into, it came about that I read the obituaries every morning. Now, to me, this does not seem particularly strange. But our friends thought that sounded crazy. An "old person" thing to do, they said. Hmmm.
I have a morning routine. Always have. It changes a little every now and then. At this point in life, it is a little earlier than it used to be. Around 6 a.m. I make myself a cup of coffee with yummy creamer in it, a waffle or bowl of dry cereal for Samuel, some juice for him, and head upstairs to the recliner. He sits on my lap and enjoys his pre-breakfast snack while I read the paper online. The Harrisonburg paper, the Daily News Record. And the first thing I check is the obituaries. I'd like to know if a former neighbor or family member of a friend passed away. I usually read or at least skim each one. Seems to me that the least I can do is respect a person in death by pausing over their name. My mom reads obituaries, too. Maybe that's where I get it.
Could be that she gets it from her mom, who listens to the funeral announcements on their local radio station each morning. I assume she still does. They play organ music, read an obituary, then play more music. (This is where the earlier mentioned conversation began). I never thought about it but I guess it's in the family. :)

This morning routine really is nice time with Samuel. By the time I'm done reading, he's ready to read some books. Usually "Melmo." (Elmo).

Before I go, another Kayla quote. On our way home last night we were talking about parades. She declared, "If I'm watching a parade and there is no mention of the Lord, then I am turning that thing off!"
She's a funny bird.

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