Today is my parent's 40th wedding anniversary. They'd known each other since high school and were married in a little country church just after college graduation. The VA/NC state line goes right through the church. I think the minister was in NC and they were in VA!
I've been thinking about their marriage and one of the things that strikes me is they don't forget the little things. I can remember Dad sending Mom flowers for no reason in particular. And not just once or twice but it seems like he did it a good bit. He worked nights for many years and Mom always made his dinner plate and then sat with him while he ate, usually around 9:00 before he left for work. They talked about their day and maybe some important things but they always took that time. They went on dates a lot, too. They joked with each other, even when they were maybe a little irritated with one another! Probably the biggest thing about them is they just seem to like being together. They enjoy each other and are good friends. It's neat to see how your parents change and grow as they get older, too. (It's not just kids that change!) Mom and Dad still like being together, helping their kids, their parents, their church.
One of their most precious gifts to me (and my brother) is their love for and enjoyment of each other. Thank you Mom and Dad and Happy Anniversary!
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A milestone anniversary (we're almost there) and such a wonderful tribute to your parents and their love for each other!
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